How to Handle a Keyholder Who Loves to Tease

You finally found a keyholder. They’re playful. They’re wicked. And they love to tease.

Maybe it started with a few messages here and there, but now? You're locked up, desperate, and they're out here sending pics, whispering dirty little promises, and never giving you what you want.

Sounds familiar? Good. You're not alone. Here's how to handle a tease-happy keyholder without losing your mind—or your cool.

1. Teasing Means They’re Into It — So Don’t Ruin the Fun
If your keyholder is constantly teasing you, it’s a sign they’re enjoying the control. That’s a great thing. But don’t beg too much, or worse, whine. Teasing is the fuel — begging is the engine — but desperation shouldn’t turn into annoyance. Keep it flirty. Keep it submissive. A well-timed “Please, Mistress…” goes way further than 15 messages of “plzzzzz.”

2. Create a Safe Word or Check-In Phrase
Teasing can sometimes push limits. If your keyholder is getting extra cruel (in a fun way), it’s okay to have a safety net. A simple phrase like “red candle” or “too far today” lets them know when you need a pause without killing the mood.

3. Tease Back… Just a Little
Want to flip the game for a moment? Tease them back. A shirtless pic (within your comfort zone), a message about what you’d do if you were free — it makes you part of the game, not just the toy. But don’t overdo it. You’re still the locked one, remember?

4. Be Useful While Denied
Here’s the trick: turn your frustration into service. Offer to do things for your keyholder — errands, tasks, or even spicy photos they request. Show that your chastity cage isn't just about denial — it’s about obedience. Keyholders love seeing you productive and pent-up.

5. Build Anticipation, Not Expectations
Never expect release. Ever. Especially with a tease-loving keyholder. That way, if they surprise you, it’s amazing. If they don’t, you’re not crushed. Say things like, “I know I don’t deserve it,” instead of, “I thought maybe today…” It keeps the power where they want it — and the tease hotter.

Remember, if they’re teasing you every day, they’re thinking about you every day. That’s powerful. Don’t just survive it — enjoy it. Squirm. Blush. Serve. Because if you're locked for someone who truly loves to tease… you’re exactly where you’re supposed to be.

Stay caged. Stay playful. And let the tease win. 💋